Dr. Charles Frazier Stanley, an iconic figure in the Southern Baptist community, passed away on April 18, 2023. His legacy as a pastor, leader, and author left a lasting imprint on countless lives. Here, we reflect on his achievements, his journey, and the circumstances of his controversial divorce.
Dr. Charles Stanley: Life and Leadership
Dr. Charles Stanley was born in 1932 and dedicated his life to serving God’s church through its ministry for over four decades, becoming Senior Pastor at First Baptist Church in Atlanta in 1971. After almost 50 years of leading his congregation, he transitioned to an emeritus status in 2020, designating Anthony George as his successor.
Establishing In Touch Ministries
In addition to his pastoral duties, Stanley established and presided over In Touch Ministries, an organization dedicated to spreading his sermons via various media channels. This platform allowed his teachings to reach an even larger audience, influencing lives beyond his local community.
Leadership in the Southern Baptist Convention
Stanley also contributed to the larger Southern Baptist community by serving as the president of the Southern Baptist Convention for two terms from 1984 to 1986. This role further solidified his influence within the denomination.
The Controversial Divorce of Dr. Charles Stanley
Despite Stanley’s dedication to his church, his personal life faced significant turmoil, particularly regarding his marriage. The divorce proceedings between him and his wife, Anna Stanley, created considerable controversy and discussion within the Southern Baptist community.
Marriage and Separation
Dr. Charles Stanley married Anna Stanley in 1955, and they had two children, Andy and Becky. Stresses from Stanley’s ministry were straining their marriage, leading them to split in 1992. Anna filed for a divorce shortly thereafter in June of 1993.
Attempts at Reconciliation and Final Divorce
While the couple initially attempted to reconcile by changing their divorce suit to a legal separation, this endeavor was ultimately unsuccessful. Anna Stanley filed for divorce once again in March 1995. The final divorce papers were filed on February 16, 2000, with the judge officially signing the divorce decree on May 11, 2000.
The Impact on Stanley’s Pastoral Role
This personal turmoil had implications for Stanley’s professional role. Stanley had previously suggested that he would resign as pastor if he ever divorced. However, when presented with a vote, his congregation chose to keep him as their pastor, despite the finalized divorce.
Remembering Dr. Charles Stanley
Dr. Charles Stanley lived his life dedicated to faith and service to others despite personal trials. His leadership, teachings, and commitment left a lasting legacy among Southern Baptists; even with his passing marks the end of an era but his influence will live on for years.
